In yesterday’s Gospel, Jesus reveals to us the heart of the Father in the Lord’s Prayer (or the Our Father). In today’s Gospel, Christ encourages us to be persistent in our prayer life and to pray without ceasing. He promises that our prayers will be answered, saying: “I tell you, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.”
Pope Francis once suggested that we reflect on our own prayer. The Holy Father had this to say: “How do we pray? Do we pray piously and calmly out of habit or do we place ourselves courageously before the Lord to ask for grace, to ask for what we are praying for?”. Our attitude is so important, he explained, for “prayer that is not courageous is not real prayer”. When we pray, we need “the courage to trust that the Lord is listening to us, we need the courage to knock at the door. . . The Lord himself says: ‘everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened’”. Pope Francis asked: “Do we get involved in prayer? Do we know how to knock at the door of God's heart When we pray courageously the Lord not only gives us grace; he gives us his very self. . .”
I want to share a personal story. Before I became Catholic, I struck a bargain with God. At the time, someone dear to me was very ill. I told God that if He healed this person, then I would dedicate my life to serving Him. I prayed every day for weeks. God answered my prayers and brought healing to this person. I started R.C.I.A. that fall and came into full Communion with the Catholic Church at the Easter Vigil that following spring. At the time, for someone who was not Catholic, what I did, bargaining with God, was in a way superstitious (and, perhaps, even a heresy). I did not know any better then; however, God used my persistence in prayer to guide me home to Rome. Jesus used my persistence in prayer as a means for me to encounter the Father’s love and mercy. I realized that I could turn to God in prayer and, more importantly, trust him unconditionally to entrust to Him all of my burdens, knowing that He will answer my prayers, according to His divine will.
My sisters and brothers in Christ, the most important effect of prayer is a close, intimate relationship with God who loves us and wants to be at the center of our lives, not for His sake but for our sake. Prayer helps us to grow in the virtues of faith, hope, and love. I want to share this reflection, by Father James Swanson, LC, that I read recently. He wrote: “One reason why God has arranged things this way is because if our needs were automatically provided for, a great number of us would not even realize there is a God, or we would easily forget him. . . When we ask God to provide for our needs, we implicitly recognize his existence and authority in our lives. God wants us to do this. It is in asking that our faith grows. The more I ask, the more I come into a personal relationship with God. If I never had to turn to him for my needs, I would never realize how much he wants to be a part of my life. . . Don’t be afraid to ask. Develop your faith by doing so. Certainly God is generous and loving, willing to give us everything that is good for us; but he is still God, and he deserves our respect, adoration, and especially our gratitude” (October 8, 2015).
And so, let us listen to Saint Paul who tells us to “Rejoice always. Pray without ceasing. In all circumstances give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).





